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(posted May 27, 2008)

Men with all kinds of sexual experience use the Cruising for Sex Message Board and often the new guys on the block need guidance from our sex pigs. This posting from 'slump' is your chance to offer up some advice many of us could use.

Ok, so here is a quick background. A guy and I used to hook up often but we both moved away so have not seen each other for a few year's. Over the course of about 5 or so year's we got together about 3-5 times a month, we were both in our late teens and it was usually mutual oral and JO. We never had anal.

I have not been with a guy since. We have staying in contact via email, he is now married and I have a LT GF and we are both in our late 20's. Last week he emailed me and said he was coming to my area in a few weeks for a few days for business! I immediately wondered if he wanted to hook up again or was it past him now that he is married. I got the sense he felt the same so it took a few feeler emails until we started talking about getting together. I am so excited. I have been craving cock for a while. We dropped hints about different things when it turned to fucking, he basically said he wants to fuck me, he was always the more aggressive of the two of us. I have no problem with his desire to do me. I have never been fucked but have wanted to and the fact it is someone I know makes it win-win. Considering I have played with his cock many times I know that it is on the smaller side, slight curve, maybe 5 inches hard which I think is good for anal, I don't want something as big as me (I am about 8 inches). A small cock should go in easier I assume.

So my question is any tips on getting ready for this? Should I go buy a toy and start sticking it up there getting used to it? He basically said that the first day he arrives to spend the day and night just hooking up so I want to make sure I can handle it? During the act, any lube suggestions? Should I wear a thong or a jock so my cock isn't moving all over? Is doggy style better/easier of on my back?

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