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(posted August 23, 2008)

Cruiser CodyKun has posted a question that he seems to believe is a bit weird involving probems having orgasm. Our job, as fellow Cruisers, is to advise him via the Cruising for Sex Message Board.

I want to say that, for someone who lives in a rural town filled with bigots, I have a pretty normal sex life. I recently turned 18, but I don't drive yet, and still live with my parents (there are reasons for both of these, but they are only minimally important); however, when we go into the nearby city (nearby=2 hours: Albuquerque, sometimes Clovis) I do meet up with guys, usually arranging things online. Now it's mostly regulars, and even though I like them the sex is getting stale. I recently got into Cruising, but one problem has arisen.

The problem: At 18 years old I have never had a single orgasm.

Basically, ever since I was 5, I had a certain "thing" I did to stop myself from having to pee. It was like humping the bed, but involed making an L with my hands, and balancing my body on it, the center focus being the base of my cock. I always stopped once the need to urinate stopped. I stopped doing this around age 12, and never continued until I was 14, long after I learned about sexual matters.

Comments, thoughts, ideas for this guy:

http://web.cruisingforsex.com/bb/showthread.php?t=332160

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