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Vitals
age:
43
roots: From the American South (And proud of it. I still
whistle "Dixie" when I'm in a good mood.). Family came over
from Wales and Scotland (very distant grandfather carried out
some tortuous duties at the Tower of London). My hometown has
a population of about 700.
stats: 5 ' 9", 160 pounds, 36 inch waist, brown hair
and green eyes, not much hair, though I do have hairy legs and
some hair around my butthole.
residence: New Orleans.
relationship: Got a boyfriend, but we don't live together.
We met in April, 1999 and agree on one very important detail
(among others): we don't believe in monogamy. In fact, we enjoy
3 ways with the right guy. I have had two previous long-term
relationships (the last one ending in 1990) and I was married
at age 18, divorced at 19 (no kids).
sex: Depends on the person/persons I'm with. I enjoy
role-playing, eating ass, and fucking (prefer bottom, but will
definitely fuck the right ass). Particularly like sex with two
male lovers and orgies. A particular fondness for firm, smart-ass
young men who prefer some kink in their lives.
Haven't picked up a man in a bar more than half-a-dozen times
in the last decade. Prefer outdoor sex. Also enjoy baths, arcades,
get hard just thinking about a gloryhole, private orgies (I
host a few each year.). Bedroom sex is hot with the right person,
but I rarely find myself in a bed doing more than sleeping (notable
exception being the boyfriend).
my perfect partner: Someone who isn't perfect, but strives
to live an ethical, honest life. Age isn't the most important
factor, though I have higher standards for older men, expecting
them to be in very good shape and doing ok economically. Younger
guys need to be intelligent, worldly, and NOT looking for a
daddy substitute.
Stream of Consciousness
politics:
Registered Republican and fairly conservative on fiscal matters.
Opponent to big government and would probably register Libertarian
if I didn't consider them as ideologically extreme as Communism.
Sympathetic to peace activists, but skeptical about environmentalists.
Ashamed of my political party many times, but consider the Democrats
to be at least as contemptible.
religion: Raised Southern Baptist. These days I get
my religion on my knees worshiping cock.
earning a living: This is how I earn my way, with websites
like cruisingforsex.com, boardboys.com,and communalstall.com,
and also directing porn videos.
quirks: Worship the Macintosh. Have been known to have
panic attacks. A bottle of Brunello. Slow reader and often don't
finish books. Don't appreciate most paintings or sculpture produced
after the Renaissance period. Love cats and dogs.
accomplishments: Among my proudest achievements are
my pro-sex work involving this website and my association with
Steam magazine. Also, attempting to reclaim my sexuality
from the layers of guilt from a Baptist upbringing. Last, but
not least, maintaining a warm relationship with my family.
regrets: I wish I felt more comfortable with women.
Mixing business with friendships. Never seeing Judy Garland
perform. That Jessica Savitch died.
dislikes: Knee-jerk reactions. People who insist the
Internet should be free, but don't give away their own labor.
Perfume. Racism and other forms of hatred including Jerry Falwell.
Much of the news media.
people I admire: My mother, Linda Ellerbee, Stephen
Sondheim, Dorethy Allison, and lastly, the man I just sucked
off.
travel: I've been many places, including living in Amsterdam,
Venice (Italy), and Toronto. Particular fascination with Arab
countries. Looking to visit or return to South Africa, eastern
Europe, Australia, India, Malaysia, Germany.
movies: Out of Africa, The Times of Harvey
Milk, Sophie's Choice, Gone With the Wind,
I Want to Live, A Streetcar Named Desire, Godfather
I, II, and even III, Victor Victoria.
television: Not much I enjoy, though reruns of old comedies
are fun to watch.
porn stars I fantasize about: Tom Chase, Chad Knight,
Matt Ramsey, Chad Douglas, David Ashfield, Mike Nichols, Jon
King, Leo Ford, Jeff Quinn, Mike Henson.
quote: "When the gods wish to punish you, they answer
your prayers."
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